Only because it's not what you want to hear...

I have to dish on this. Seriously, before my fucking head explodes.

If I have to hear or read about "guy" problems one more time, I'm going to fall through my ass and hang myself.

What's even more annoying is, it's usually the same person(s) 90% of the time. Every 3 months, I know I'm going to see that feminist, "hear me roar", myspace blog about how you "don't need a man". Well, girlfriend, I'm going to lay it all out for you. I won't pat your ass and give you kudos on dishing it out to some dude on myspace, who broke your heart. Especially when you go through these episodes at least 4 times, with each guy, every couple months.

First, let me start off by saying this. When I read these "empowering" blogs of yours, I sense that you really are insecure, although you may not agree. You come off as someone who needs a man, in other words "co dependent". Whether it be emotional, or financial. I sense more emotional though, personally. I see someone who falls "in love" within a month of meeting a person, regardless of who that person may be. Now, how in Gods name do you even get to know a person in 30 days? Shit, I've been around 25 years and I confuse myself sometimes. Give it, at the least, 4 months before you go announcing your love for some random douche bag, on myspace. So, after I read about all this happiness (and in all honesty, I was happy for you the first time...until I caught on to your mental trend), I can promise....in 3 months, TOPS, I will come across a fresh new blog about how you've "found yourself" or "you can make it without him". Well, duh... you've made it this far. When I see these, it's when I really just laugh to myself at your ignorance and how pathetic your friends are for actually agreeing with you.

Here is my advice to you, especially when kids are involved. Focus on yourself, men are turned on by independence, seriously. I'm not talking over kill, but independence is good. Imagine saying "I don't need a man" and truly meaning it. Being able to take care of your kids and self without the help of another person. It's liberating, truly. Ever thought about what it might feel like to put your kids in front of your emotional needs? You might want to try it, being selfless is the best part of being a mother, to me. How about getting an education, your spelling and grammar could use some major work. These ; are not to be used after every word, so stop, you're almost 30.

I hate to be even more cold here, but I am certain the boys you flock to aren't one to really understand a real job or grammar either.

Your blog was the worst analogy on women and independence I have ever seen in my life. I was embarrassed for you. Not only could I truly understand what you were saying ( or lack thereof), but you misused words like it was a trend. POSTING A BLOG ON MYSPACE WILL NOT GET A GUYS ATTENTION, ALTHOUGH THE CAPS MIGHT HELP.

If you're truly not concerned about how he feels anymore, or you're all about self sufficiency, then fucking prove it. Get the fuck off myspace. I'm tired of seeing 32 bulletins a day about what color shirt you're wearing. Get a fucking life and then preach on myspace. It's really fucking pathetic. Have you thought lately about where you will be in 10 years, shit 5 years even. Obviously the finding a guy to carry your ass and feed your kids is coming along too well. I'm sure your parents are tired of having their nearly 30 year old daughter in the house too.

CHRIST ON A CRACKER.


Get with it girls. For all that we've gone through, why are so many still so co dependent on men. I'm tired of seeing it. My Mom worked her ass off for 20 years to support two kids, only dating when she had time. The stereotypes are still there and I see girls that truly disappoint me everyday.


Off to shoot myself.